Originally Posted by AnvilheadII

it's not about hurting YOU...he's not drinking AT you or to hurt you. in fact, you aren't even part of the equation.

this is a battle he's been engaged in for a long time.

he showed you what he wanted you to see, and you saw what you wanted to see.

it didn't work out. he wasn't a viable pick. he wasn't who you thought he was, by any stretch of the imagination. now you know that and you can move on.