I'm on the same boat. My xabf dumped me just like that 5 weeks ago. Tho couple days before he was telling me all this sweet and charming lies of his love to me. We've been in touch for first two weeks. After that at one point he just never replied to my text or pick up the phone anymore, Without any explanation. I've got no clue what's going on and it's killing me as I started to blame it on myself. But everyday I telling to myself he is sick and he acting like sick person, not me. And at the end of the day Ive done nothing bad and hurtful to anybody and I can look in the mirror with dignity.
Hugs for you x