LMN,
There is no right or wrong to what we feel.
I was always thinking how TERRIBLE I'd feel if she didn't make it.
(She didn't)
What did I feel? Sadness for a wasted life.But at the end of the day it
wasn't MY life....and I wasn't responsible for her life choices.
I was responsible for MY choices.That's why I came to SR.To correct
a behavior pattern that was bringing no joy,happiness,or recovery to ANYONE.
Was I selfish?