SS,
You are so totally cool. I reread that post just now and focused on what you pointed out. Last night I came home to a notice from the bank that an automatic payment had been returned for insufficient funds. I had used the wrong account to pay the bill. I was a failure. Tonight I get online and read your post and am pushed to reread this thought and what a blessing. I am not what I do - I am not a mistake. I am human. Thank you for shifting the angle of the light - it made a difference in how I saw things.
Peace,
Petunia