Originally Posted by
honeypig 
In regards to his skills at sneaking, here is an example that he told me about: When he would allegedly "go to his meeting", there would always be a few errands he would take care of in town at the same time--pick up dog food, get kerosene for the heater, etc. He would make sure to always do those errands either before or after the time of the meeting (that he did not attend) just in case I would happen to look at the time printed on the receipt and see that he had been at the pet store when he was supposedly at his meeting. It would NEVER in a MILLION YEARS occur to me to check something like that! I am not anywhere in his league when it comes to being sneaky, not a chance in hell
Honeypig, this made me laugh...what is amazing it the lengths they go to in order to protect their facade, all the while NO ONE ELSE IS PAYING ATTENTION! I mean, who has time to check receipts for the time stamp to verify if it occurred before, during, or after they were supposed to be at an AA meeting? Wow. I am impressed at the lengths he went to, for no reason whatsoever! And I agree with you - my brain doesn't work this way, either.
Also, remember...doing nothing is also doing something. You can do nothing while you wait for more to be revealed.
When in doubt - wait. Best advice I've gotten from others here.
Take good care,
~T