My heart goes out to you both.
OMG. Right now, you and your wife getting through the next couple of days is what is foremost in my mind. I wish I had words of wisdom, but I am filled only with emotions here, and angry as hell on your behalf!
It's good that you were able to calm down enough to speak to the detox center again; going to add my prayers that they allow her to finish the treatment and will then reassess her.
We are all here for you
Vxx