You're not crazy nor stupid. Deciding to end a relationship is
not an easy decision to make. All you can do is ask yourself questions about what you want out of a relationship/marriage and make decisions for yourself. I get that it's hard. Making a major life change like separation or divorce takes soul searching, and you're not going to be judged for deciding to end a relationship if it's not working for you. There's no checklist to decide whether it's "bad enough" to leave, and anyone who
does try to judge for any decisions you make can just stuff it!
Take solace in knowing that you've got a community of people here to support you. Reach out to those who you trust for comfort. And most importantly, take care of yourself. Sending you strength, hope, and hugs.
