I had a hysterectomy last year at the age of 35~
I had some problems and had to go off my pills for almost a month~
I became suicidal~I ended up going on zoloft for a while as well..When your body is low in estrogen..You will become depressed have headaches,mood swings//etc...the whole nine yards~I would say my best advice for her would be...Go find another doctor A.S.A.P~~
She can take some vitamins..she will need calcium .I take one b vitamin pill everyday..It is a b vitamin complex 100 pill..I get mine at the drugstore and buy their brand..This is working good for me~.You can take melatonin at night to help you sleep~
She can try the estroven pills over the counter but there are only small amounts of things to help you in those~
Please tell her to find another doctor soon~
Also i have to tell you about this wonderful site i found right before my hyst..Even though she is in nat menopause and not surgically induced menopause..This site is a big help for all your questions from a-z..
Its called hystersister.com..
I hope things calm down soon for everyone in your home as im sure this is no fun for any of you~