neighbor, alcoholic and I
I am so sick of our neighbors and ah.
Let me start by saying that whilst not drinking ah confided in neighbor he goes to aa has interlock and not drinking/detoxed but this guy doesnt get the hint!
Its not his fault its completely the fault of ah but it burns me up that knock knock
"You got beer?" Knock knock "you got a cigarette?" Knock knock "hey want a drink"
It just goes on and on. After ah detoxed as he stayed inside the whole time he finally wanted to go out. Come back from the store five minutes later knock knock"beer?"
Really dude?
If we come back from store (he sees the groceries) he knocks.
If we are outside having a smoke (heya neighbor im drunnnkkk!)
Just last week ah left for work and knock knock (I didnt answer)
So guess what yup ring ring mother f***** I answer unaware of number
And hes freaking out that my ah left because he was gunna bum a cig and a drink and asked when hed be back. Hes the worst enabler because hes not going anywhere lives next door and ah is too nice sober to say anything and drunk he joins in.
The guys not all bad if he works out ah will with him.
Thats great but its the bumming off that seems more times than a person should
And then personal space that drives me crazy.
Frankly I cannot take any of it. Last night ah went to the store (took him 4 hours)for a simple run and he finally came back plastered. Barged in barking a storm.
Shame because earlier that day he went to his regular aa meeting and sober. I thought he was getting it together.
4 hours and I thought he was dead ....not cool.
I was worried but I kind of sensed that he got drunk because come on 4 hours?
So stayed in getting ready for bed etc. He barges in and starts the blame game and name calling from the first second. Literally.
First it was (because I locked the door ) and he was too drunk to use his key so he had to wait to be let in which he in turn said I "locked him out".
Lots of bs talk and quaking and finally he goes to bed after making a scene.
I have a feeling as I didnt think to look before but that he was at the neighbors getting drunk as before ah left yup neighbor knock knocking "ive got beer!"
Ughhh! I dislike my neighbors.
But as I said the responsibility is ahs own
And because I can no longer tolerate his behavior or the neighbors.(to a certain degree yes!)
Ive set up a place for me and the kids to stay at until he gets his head on his shoulders and works his program.