Originally Posted by
2granddaughters 
Read some posts from others here who have began to attend meetings.
You might just find that your "established beliefs" are erroneous ....
All the best.
Bob R
I bristle a bit when I hear someone tell others that their established beliefs are erroneous. Perhaps it is just the choice of words. I WOULD recommend that people be open to the possibility that their assumptions may be challenged if they try new things.
Apologies if this sentiment was your intent grandfather. If not, then I will remain bristled but respectful of your right to contribute. :-)