Stay strong,
I cant imagine how hard it is to work in a bar. I know for me it is a real killer for me to know I will never be able to go back to that. I made good Money as a bartender/server. Im sure it didn't hurt that I was over friendly & was more than willing to share & listen to our drunken war stories, and we would all laugh about them.
No better way to get lots of tips by letting the man sitting across the bar from you night after night, think that HE isnt the one with the problem, the rest of the world was, so let me pour you another!
Please stay strong, and I really hope you are not working in a place that allows you to drink on the job (yea yea I know we are not suppose to, but anyone that has been in the industry for long enough & works at certain places it really is the norm)
Here's to another 24 hours!
~Peace
Jules