@scacra1: You are definitely worth more and deserve so much more than this... I agree 100% with Recovering2: "His path does not need to be your path." None of us can compel another person to change, least of all an alcoholic or drug addict. It is totally up to them to quit abusing alcohol/drugs. Only our individual life is within our control. If we seek peace of mind, tranquility, happiness and more, we have to create it for ourselves. I hope you find the strength to leave a situation that seems to bring you nothing but pain and sorrow. I'm wishing you all the best!