bunkie65, thank you so much for your post. It was really inspiring for me to read.
I am early on in my recovery from my addict/codependency, and I am hoping to be where you are someday. You sound like you are in a great place.
Good for you, and keep it up!!!
Kindeyes, wow, that bird comparison is awesome! I've never heard/thought of that before. It's a great way to look at it. I think i will save it to my computer so I can remember it.
Thanks!