Glad to see you check in and share such an inspiring post!
There is no doubt that loving unconditionally is important and sometimes difficult. We can love unconditionally but that doesn't mean that we unconditionally accept bad behaviors. It's ok to love someone from afar if that's what needs to be done to maintain our own sense of balance.
I love birds. But I have no desire to put one in a cage so that I can love it up close. That doesn't mean that I love them less (or more) than anyone else. It simply means that that is how I can best love them. Sometimes I think of the addicts in my life as birds......it's best if I love them from afar because that's how I can best love them unconditionally. It doesn't mean I love them less. I don't have to prove my love or justify my actions. And when I do have contact, I can maintain that sense of balance, kindness, and serenity.
Thanks for sharing bunkie65.....glad to know you're doing well!!
gentle hugs
ke