I don't know what it's like where you are, but in my city we have different types of meetings. We have 'Big Book' study meetings, meetings that focus on the 12 Steps, Daily Reflections, As Bill Sees It etc. In those meetings i hear people focusing on the solution rather than the problem and that helps me a lot. It did take me a while, and a relapse, to get my head around being in the solution rather than the problem.