as someone who is married to an alcoholic, my advice to you is to just focus on you. don't worry about the next relationship. enjoy being single and free. free to do whatever you want. be happy you don't have someone breathing down your neck wondering why it took you so long at the grocery store or what that strange number on your cell phone is. and keep in mind that his new gf will likely experience all the anxiety that you did, but you are now free of it and it is her problem. some of us can't give our problem away so easily
