Hey Jzeb -
I remember feeling like Zombies had take over my loved one. Sound familiar?
Who is this man?
From what you have written it seems like you have a great deal of strength and a pretty good perspective.
I'm sorry that he's being so awful, and that his mom is supporting him in his awfulness, but glad that you see what's going on for what it is...
Do you know what your next step is going to be?
Glad that you found SR. It's a huge help to have this community.
Peace and Love,
Hanna