Originally Posted by
redrosie 
So what do I do now?Make a plan...?
Well, this was my plan. Now what? I dont have the faintest idea what to do next.
I dont even know what im doing here, i dont know what to say. If i could make a plan about this whole thing then i wouldnt be on here!
Unfortunately, you can't stop at the 'Sober R Us' drive-thru and pick up a
generic plan that will work for you. There are many paths to sober living. Not all of them work for everybody. It took me decades to find one I feel truly comfortable with. (Granted, I spent a lot of my time drinking instead of looking, but that's another story!) Finding the 'plan' that will work for you will take effort from you.
These forums (fora?) aggregate a tremendous wealth of information on treating addiction. Read around at the various forums. Secular, Non-secular, 12-step, Non 12-step... Ask questions in those forums (debating the merits of different methods is discouraged in the newcomer forum). People will answer. You need information to make your plan. Go get it!
