I can't tell you if you have a problem but I drank exactly like you and I could have written that myself 4 months ago. My family were worried. I had a particularly bad fortnight and decided to quit for 100 days and see if my life improved. With the help of SR (and a few AA meetings - I no longer go) my life has improved beyond recognition.
I cannot remember the last time I had that panic / dreadful sinking feeling in the morning.
I don't think anyone who didn't think alcohol was causing problems in their life would search out a sober recovery forum. I joined here months before I was ready to go through with it, but I'm so grateful I found this place.
S x