Well, just like you cannot fix the ABF you cannot fix his Mom. She will enable until
she has reached her own bottom.
What are your boundaries for when he gets out of jail? It's all about you now.
Working on you to achieve the 'life' you want. And that life may not necessarily
be with your ABF, no one knows.
ie
"I will no longer live with or be around ANYONE in active addiction or early
recovery."
etc
Love and hugs,