Yes, I do believe in recovery. Like ((Laurie)), I'm both a recovering addict (RA) I also have loved ones in active addiction.
I don't have nearly the time that she does, but I'm coming up on 6 years and I'm extremely grateful. If it wasn't for my loved ones saying "okay...you live your life the way you want to, we are stepping back", I don't think I would be here.
They allowed me to deal with the consequences of my addiction, then supported me in my recovery (and continue to do so). The bf (boyfriend) that I shared my addiction with is dead. I could be him. I'm not because my loved ones allowed me to hit bottom and dig myself out of the hole I'd dug myself into.
It doesn't work for everyone, but it worked for me
Hugs and prayers,
Amy