My sponsor called Valentine's Day the Al-anon National Set-up Day. This day is a total set-up for all of us on this forum. Just like other holidays that are commercialized- this was not the original intention of this holiday. It's all about love, gratitude, and selflessness. Tomorrow you can make a total stranger happy or yourself happy just by smiling. If anything write a valentine to your higher power- and thank them for loving you unconditionally just as you are. Or buy yourself a nice piece of chocolate and savor it. Personally, I am going to take care of myself tomorrow. Valentine's Day like many other days have failed me because I put it on someone else. Taking my power back. The universe wants me to learn to love myself first.