Welcome to Sober Recovery. I am so glad that you have found us, but so so sorry
for the reasons that you had to!
As suggested all ready, check out the 'stickys' at the top of this forum (those are
the threads that show a 'lock' on them) as there is a lot of information in those that
can help you.
Possibly some Alanon or Naranon meetings for you and some Alateen meetings
for your daughter (if she is 11 or older) or some counseling for all of you is in order
to help you all get through these devastating events. And you will and can get
through this!!!!
Check this out for a list of AlAnon meetings in your state:
http://www.missouri-al-anon.org/
Many of us on here have had to go through what you are going through in one way
or another and we do understand!
Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing as we do care so very much.
Feel free to vent, rant, rave, scream, cry and yes even laugh as much as you need to
we do understand.
Sending healing thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Lots of love and bunches of hugs,