I'm kind of annoyed actually because the in-laws, my mother, and AH (who eventually came over) decided that our marriage was worth saving. All together, a cohesive group, with AH sounding very contrite and sympathetic, they concluded it was worth another go.
Nobody can decide to stay or go but YOU. Alcoholic husband wants his enabler because otherwise, he may have to take responsibility for something. Frankly, it's no one's business. I hope you can thank them for sharing but this is something YOU must do on your own. Nobody but you knows how terrible your life is. You've taken big steps .... listening to others can screw up your life.