Kale-
I just want to acknowledge that one of your early posts (and the responses) helped me to realize just how lucky I was I had not been hurt with my loved one and his drinking.
I had to share that to you as I as walked into my therapists office this week and said the same thing.
I am glad you are out and safe. For me the rest fell into place, but it could not have if I was not taking care of my own physical wellbeing.