For me I don't obsess over it as much (drinking or not drinking). The cravings are less but they are still there every now and then. Like you I still have those moments of ...awwww a glass of wine would be SO nice, but the moments see to pass faster and don't have as much sadness and 'poor me' feelings associated with them. I think I have become more comfortable in my own skin and with who I am as a non-drinker. The biggest thing is that I don't feel bored all the time like I did when I first quit. I think my brain is finally starting to readjust.