Hi,
That is so weird that she contacted you to ask you something like that. I'm glad you were able to remain detached from it all. Crazy people with addiction problems is not where I want my life to be either! I too am trying to get unstuck from the past, especially all the pain and drama. I just started seeing someone who has a drink maybe once a week, and so far it is so refreshing to be around someone who is not constantly moody and abusive.
good luck to you
-z