CeciliaV

Have to agree here - he may believe it and he may be trying to convince himself, but he's not cured. There is no cure for alcoholism. It's a disease that can be managed with treatment.

It's unfortunate that he's fallen out of touch with his sponsor. Do you know for certain that his sponsor stopped contacting him? One thing I learned for certain is that A's lie.

I stopped asking where "bottom" is a long time ago. It's very scary to think how much further someone can go before they hit their bottom. I have to agree with what others here have said & say you need to focus on you more than on him. (Still learning that one myself!)

I wish you the best - sending you strength & hope & hugs! :ghug3