Regarding the job thing... She claims that I wouldn't let her work... This is kind of BS because I have been asking her to get a job since the economy crashed a few years back. She has always claimed that with taking the kids to school, etc, etc, she doesn't have time to work. However when we discussed it the other day she twisted it around and blamed me..
Anyhow thanks for the advise... I'll browse around and see what I can find...