When I was in grade school, I convinced myself it I put school book under my pillow I would absorb the information while I slept. Didn't work.
When I was a bit older, I would pick and choose the parts I liked about a particular book/subject and disregard the rest. Didn't work.
Making a decision to never drink again and never change my mind is not about a book or a program or a method. It's something that hit the very core of my being.
With the above decision comes responsibility. That means I have got my doctor on board, therapy lined up, SR and several other measures in place.
In a way, Hamabi has a point. Whatever it takes to not drink, ever again, you may have to re-evaluate your BP.
That's just my .02.