Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
You know, in that moment, he probably believes what he's saying. The problem is he can't sustain the commitment to your marriage while he's not in recovery. It's impossible.
And he's going to have to learn and accept that he can't be committed to recovery while trying so hard to hold on to other things. Otherwise, he'll always be stuck.
Keep doing the right things every day, even if you're torn, even if it hurts...because the only thing you have control over is what you do.
Best,
ZoSo