Originally Posted by
LadySage 
Thank you for this!
I keep thinking that I stayed and got involved because he was so wonderful but maybe that's not really why. Maybe the why has to do more with ME than him.
Well, there were no doubt wonderful parts but I can say for myself, that I kept trying to break up with him and kept coming back telling me how much he loved me and wanted to work things out. I guess I am gullible... now it's my really my anger keeping me obsessed I think.