Billy, chin up....I'm in the same boat. I was the bread winner & now out of work 4 months. Hubby has no interest in going back to work so that weight I must carry & it bites.
I think sometimes I am too nice & don't stand my ground. Part of why I drank.
I'm Miss Peacemaker to a fault. Psychologists call it codependant.
I've observed lately, the hubs began back drinking daily around Nov. minus a day or 2.
Though, I do not desire a drink, I don't care for his personality change, no matter how small. He only has 2-3 & stops. Yet, he gets the dropsy fingers, then curses about it, slams doors/drawers, obnoxiously talks a little too loud for my comfort, is short fused with our child.
It makes me sad that he can't do without it. I feel alone in my struggles with all these things, but I know God is with me & you guys understand the hatred for the poison.
Enough pity...my troubles draw me closer to God & maybe that's where He wants me...snuggled up to Him
Happy Anniversary Nel! I LOVE Red Lobster!!!
Kat, I pray your son finds something soon & you as well Billy.
I just keep cleaning my brains out, I was actually scrubbing the dish drain w/bleach & a toothbrush. I need a job!!!