I think I have some very serious issues were obessing is concerned as far as my XABF. It really slapped me in the face the other day too or backfired whichever you'd like to call it! I don't have the time to get into that at the moment but do intend to crawl under the table and tell my patheic story soon! Lol I try to laugh at it but I don't really think it's funny. I have a long way to go but I have also come along way! You have to ask yourself, Why would anyone give someone any attention that has been so emotionally and verbally abusive? Just goes to show you how things get so out of hand and ill one can become. However, There is a way out!