"Understandably. I've seen some of the crueler abusers I've dealt with, when we happen to have a psych evaluation to look at (which we often don't have) diagnosed with NPD."
So embarrassing, but I read his psych evaulation from when he and exwife #1 were fighting over the children. It said he was highly manipulative, was unable to feel empathy and the psychiatrist said he was a narcissist. I kid you NOT! My dumb ass thought his exwife had to have manipulated the psychiatrist; because I KNEW him SO well and he was nothing like that. Shaking my head and laughing. At least I can laugh about it now. Jeesh.