Paulos, when people live together they tend to get on each others nerves from time to time. This can happen under the best of circumstances, add alcohol/drugs to the mix and that's just more fuel for the fire. Have you ever talked to your Doctors about getting off the opiates for good or do your Doctors see them as necessary? You're always going to have withdrawal issues with opiates as your blood levels fluctuate, that's just the nature of the beast and there is no way around that. Did you ever consider the possibility that life might be better with the opiates out of the picture?