Welcome to SR Ruserius
I got pretty good at minimising the consequences of my drinking too. To be honest though it made it worse in a way. By minimising the consequences the problem didn't go away but the reasons to quit did, and this prolonged the problem and gave me the excuse carry on drinking. But it's a bit of a pointless exercise anyway, as soon as you minimise one problem another one pops up somewhere else. For me it was health and anxiety problems.
I'm sure you'll find this place a huge help though, I really believe I wouldn't be sober today if it wasn't for SR and the people here
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