Originally Posted by
vegibean 
I have to ask, how old are you and why did you go back?
I'm sorry for what you are going through. It was the opposite for me, my husband divorced me because of my drinking and then for over three years he wanted me back, NO WAY!!!! He was one of my biggest triggers. He flipped when I finally met someone after three years... What a nut, he divorced me, that was his choice, but either way, I would never, ever fathom going back to him. Living with him was hell and he gave me every reason to keep drinking and no reason to stop. :ghug3
I will be 63 in February. And why I went back is beyond me. I suppose I just wanted to BELIEVE he would change like he said he would. I should have known, I was raised with an alcoholic mother and I remember how she was. Why I thought this relationship would be different I don't have a clue. He like most alcoholics, is the best man in the world when he is sober, but the drinking is becoming more and more and I can't handle it any longer.