Originally Posted by
Vale 
It was HARD,DAMNED HARD.Anyone who would imply it
is easy doesn't know what the hell they are talking about.
What if she was my wife,my lover,or my child? Would
I have been strong enough to just go NO CONTACT?
I honestly do not know.
And anyone who tells you with certainty that THEY
would be.....
.........is full of crap.
Thank you Vale as always for your words of encouragement!!! Still sitting with day 1 no contact...... aaaaaargh!!!!!!!!!! Just seen him pass by on the road.... I am sitting here in one of the most beautiful places on earth - Zanzibar. I am so aware of how privileged I am. Trying to focus on the NOW - but so damn difficult. Just want to pick up the phone - call him....