good for you! i can totally imagine the way the lies are mapping themselves out, just enough to keep us sweet and then it always reverts back to the same old bs..just it takes a little bit more away from us each time... stay strong, and don't let him take anymore from you than he already has.
watch out for the aa meetings too..my ex went to aa then 'bonded' with this woman there, (who had a partner of 6 yrs that she was physically violent towards) he started seeing her/sleeping with her, because they 'understood' each other...it's laughable now, but am just saying, that kind of thing is fairly common in aa if the person is not serious about recovery and if they have a history of being dishonest or unfaithful.