((beenafool))
please know that you are making healthy decisions for yourself and allowing your loved one the opportunity to make healthy decisions for himself too ~
by stepping out of the way, we give the ability to find their own dignity, self-respect and love to seek a different way ~ it's hard but many addicts will tell you when family step out of the way then is when they finally realized they could seek another way
does it always work - no, but it does increase the chances and sweetie it gives you the opportunity to live a safe, serene and peaceful life ~ which everyone deserves that ~
keep reaching out for love, support and help here on SR - that's what this place is for
pink hugs (hope, unity gratitude & serenity!)