Yes, they have both stolen, thousands of dollars. Not to mention the 100s of thousands over the past 10 years paying for cars they wrecked, attorneys, bail, rehab after rehab. Neither has had access to our money or home directly for years, they live not far away with their biological father, he just gives them his ATM card and they take whatever he has. I have gotten my wife to stop paying for just about everything, I caved on the car and home as a gesture of hope and confidence... I see where that got me... I keep telling myself it is not about the money,, I have way more than anyone could ever need and I want for nothing,,, except a wife that is happy so we can live happily together.. Of course,, she will never be happy until they are happy and that seems unlikely,,, ever,,,,