I hear ya. Maybe someone can identify with this: She drinks too, and that is how I slipped back in this time. I quit after I got crazy drunk and treated her very badly one night, totally unprovoked. I stayed clean about 2 weeks, but I started drinking with her now and then, then all the time, then got plastered on New Year (of course). She had been drinking too and was over reacting, but I blacked out and don't remember how bad I was, or if she was really that bad. Honestly, It would be easier if neither of us drank, but I don't think she wants to. We get along awesome when we are sober, I have never had more fun with a girl. But we always end up getting drunk. We drank 4 bottles of wine a few nights ago! I think maybe I want her to say "We can't be together unless you stop", but she never will because she wants to keep drinking. Does this indicate she has a problem?