Hi SoLong, I think you are on the road to a happier life!
Good for you for dumping him now! You did the right thing, believe me! Once they start with the abuse, they continue until they either hurt you or kill you! You deserve better!
Heck, doesn't sound like you need counseling, it sounds like you are one brave woman! The fact that you told your parents was great. I think a CODIE would not have mentioned it, because in the back of their mind they really would go back with him; however, you must mean business now!
I for one am happy that it only took you 3 weeks to learn what took me 35 years!
Keep posting, it helps!
Happy New Year, you've got a great start this year!
Hugs, Devastated