I try not to take my ABF's lies personally but it just feels so disrespectful sometimes. I'm not sure if he even gets how bad he lies. It seems like he honestly forgets all about them. The thing that makes me so nervous is that I always wonder what other things he'll lie about since it comes so easily to him. Like if he cheated, I don't know if I'd ever know since he'd probably just lie about it. When he lies about the drinking, it just blows his credibility on everything he says. For me, I can usually forgive him after a time for them but I'm having a hard time forgetting about it even when he hasn't done it for a while.