Originally Posted by
contra 
how do you go no contact or let go when you have kids together. i dont have the money to get my own place for me and my kids. im so sad everyday. my AW does not put my kids in any danger but i am so hurt. thankyou for listening.
listening to "scars" by papa roach
contra
I see this is your first post. Welcome to SR.......
When I look back at my marriage (XAH), I was so very confused. I couldn't even fathom that there was a solution to my problem. I realize now that I didn't really have a problem, I just had solutions I didn't like.
I hope you stick around. Ask questions. And keep an open mind. It's impossible to graft a new idea onto a closed mind.
Nar-Anon helped me find serenity......whether the addict continued to use .....or not. It is possible. (Great song BTW......very powerful).
gentle hugs
ke