Thank you!! I need some validation from objective people. Most likely the incident will just be forgotten by them and never spoke of....that is how they operate. They don't talk about things or just minimize the actual emotional effect. My children love them but def sense the tension towards me. I am going to ask God for some guidance on this one. Maybe he'll send it in a post.
. But be sure I will let her know in some manner of my disapproval.