Hopefulmom. I know exactly how you feel right now about this baby. Not very long ago, I found out that my 15 year old is pregnant! AUGH!!!!!!!! I was so p!ssed because I tried to get her dad to stop being a douche and he couldn't pull his head out of his ass and see this coming! I'm going to be 35 and a grandma very soon! I swore if anyone congratulated me, I'd kick them in the knee caps! That anger and sadness has left me now. I have to accept this baby just as much as my daughter does because guess what?! I, my husband, her father and both grandmothers to my daughter (great grandmothers now) are going to be supporting this baby and her. The doner has split. He says it isn't his. It's not fawking shocking. She's not the first and certainly won't be the last.
Hey, I'm sorry. But you are not a loser. Your son needs to pull his head out of his ass and be a MAN! (That's what I tell my AH... Pull your damn head out of your ass and stop being a fool! Grow the fawk up! Ghesh!)