Originally Posted by
PohsFriend 
Knock off the loser talk, you are doing the very best that you can. Look up the term "double bind" - its the psych term for a no win situation.
How far along us the girlfriend? Does she use too?
Hang in there
Thanks, PohsFriend. I am just so disgusted with myself for caving, but mostly with the situation. I can not believe either one of them got themselves in this situation. For God's sake he's only been home from rehab for 5 weeks! As far as I know, she does not use. He was scared to death to let her know that he was drinking again. However, she's very young and works a minimum wage job. His job ends after this week. Neither one has a place to live or a car. What the ****???? And, he is an ALCOHOLIC!!
I can barely breathe.