im with you Zoso, i feel exactly the same way...my xabf and the girl he is with now...its been 9 months for me...in those 9 months i have been certified as a nurse assistant...worked at a new job, met lots of wonderful, interesting, fun-loving, non drama people and good things just keep happening and things are getting better. its true when they say time heal all wounds...it maybe slow but i know in my heart that i am getting there and sooner than i expected. in my heart of hearts, i have let go and let God and i sincerely wish that my xabf find the happiness and peace that he truly deserves.
thank you for your sharing your wisdom and i thank everyone in this community for helping me go through my pain as well.
peace and love to everyone and of course to you to zoso
